A step-by-step guide on how to use a dildo properly

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A dildo is a penis-shaped sex toy designed to stimulate your inner erogenous zones, including the G-spot and P-spot. Dildos can be used vaginally, anally and - if they vibrate - can also be used externally, depending on the type of dildo you buy.

How to insert a dildo
1. Lubrication

We've said it before, but seriously, use lube. Start by covering the tip of the dildo with your favorite lube, spread it along the shaft by hand, don't be shy, you'll never have too much.

2. Take it slow

Start slowly and take some time to get used to the dildo around your genitals.

If you plan to use it in the vagina, try some external stimulation before insertion by rubbing the dildo along the labia and gently against the clitoris. This "warms you up," so to speak, as the G-spot is stimulated with a dildo inside you.

The same goes for anal play. Slow stimulation around the anus, buttocks, and perineum will help prepare the anus for penetration and pleasure. Make sure your dildo has a tapered end, you've used the bathroom beforehand, and once your sex toy is inserted into the anus, avoid using your sex toy in any other area.

3. See what fun you can find

When you're ready, spread your labia or butt cheek with your spare hand (or ask if your partner is nearby) and slowly insert the huge dildo into your vagina or anus. If you just want to plug in a few inches at a time and move on, it's your game time, so do what works for you. For an explosive effect, use an angled thrusting motion to stimulate the G-spot on the anterior wall of the vagina, or the P-spot on the anterior wall of the anus in prostate patients.

How to masturbate with a dildo
Whether you're riding solo or having some mutual masturbation with a partner in crime, a dildo can make your sesh even hotter. The best part about masturbation is that you have complete control over your pleasure, so you can explore different techniques and positions to your liking.

Try inserting the dildo into you slowly, then speed up or experiment with how deep you go each time to see what mood you are in. If you're ready to multitask, one hand can be responsible for penetration with a dildo while the other can stimulate your other erogenous zones. Put a vibrator in the mix and you'll laugh.

And don't just stick to the same stance. Walk around and find angles that can lead to deep penetration or different types of stimulation. When it comes to dildos, the world is your oyster.

How to ride a dildo
Riding a dildo yourself is not only great for kicks, but it's also a great way to practice the real deal. Experimenting with different positions will help you understand what you like and which angles give you the most pleasure, so you can show your partner when you need to have penetrative sex with them.

You can ride a dildo in a number of ways. One of the most popular methods is to install in a tethered seat belt and use it with a partner.

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